Celebrating Failure

28 Dec


unknownWhen this blog posts, I’ll be on vacation. But will it be a vacation I’ve earned?

Last January I set a goal to write two full-length books and a novella by December 31. I failed. I completed one novel and one novella, but the other novel is only half finished.

Some goals I did accomplish, and there are many that I’m quite proud of. I published two books and edited a lot of great manuscripts for other writers.

(Check out my new releases, Convenient Lies and A Package Deal.)

On the personal side, I was able to spend time with friends, pray with people, make meals, attend funerals, and try to support my loved ones. Most importantly, I was available for my teenagers, who went through some unexpected and sometimes serious issues this year.

As I reflect on my 2016 goals, I realize that last January first, I had no idea what the months ahead would hold for me and those I love. I’d made my goals blindly. Don’t we always?

So rather than look back in disappointment over my perceived failures, I’ve decided to give myself grace for what I didn’t do and focus on what I did.

I’ll set more goals this year. With God’s help, I’ll achieve them. But more important to me than reaching work and personal goals is my desire to be obedient to God and to be the best wife, mom, daughter, sister, and friend I can be. If I can keep those priorities straight, I trust God will work out the rest.


DSC_8915-25edRobin Patchen is an award winning multi-published author, but only because she can’t pursue her other dream.

If time and money were no object, Robin would spend her life traveling. Her goal is to visit every place in the entire world–twice. She longs to meet everybody and see everything and spread the good news of Christ. Alas, time is short and money is scarce, and her husband and three teenagers don’t want to traipse all around the world with her, so Robin does the next best thing: she writes. In the tales she creates, she can illustrate the unending grace of God through the power and magic of story.

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Posted by on December 28, 2016 in Parenting, Robin Patchen, Writing


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One response to “Celebrating Failure

  1. Terri Weldon

    December 28, 2016 at 11:34 pm

    Great post Robin, you accomplished a great deal. Just different things from what you originally intended.

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